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Why reclaiming originality in architecture, interiors, and fashion is more urgent than ever In a world overflowing with options, why does everything feel the same? From the playlists we stream to the clothes we wear and the spaces we inhabit, our lives are increasingly shaped by algorithms that favor convenience over creativity. Global brands dominate our cities, our screens, and even our tastes—flattening culture into a predictable loop. But this sameness isn’t inevitable. It’s a choice. And in design, choosing originality is an act of rebellion. This post explores how the illusion of choice is reshaping our aesthetic world—and how architecture, interiors, and fashion can lead the way back to wonder. The Illusion of Choice: How Algorithms Shape Our Aesthetic World When was the last time you arrived in a new city and felt truly surprised? Not by the familiar glow of a Starbucks sign or the predictable presence of Zara, but by the streets themselves—their colors, scents, voices, and rhythms. A place where life moved differently, where the atmosphere felt genuinely unique. In today’s hyper-connected world, we can fly from Seoul to Dubai, New York to Istanbul, and land in environments that feel eerily similar. The same playlists hum in the background, the same brands line the streets, and even our accommodations—Hotels and Airbnbs curated for Instagram—mirror one another. We were promised infinite variety, yet somehow, we’re all living the same life. Why? Because we’re no longer choosing. The data chooses for us. This phenomenon is known as the illusion of choice . Platforms like Amazon, Netflix, and Spotify offer staggering catalogs—millions of products, thousands of shows, hundreds of millions of tracks. But this abundance doesn’t liberate us. It overwhelms us. And so, we default to what’s placed in front of us. Take Amazon. Search for headphones and you’ll get 43,000 results. But will you scroll through them all? Of course not. Most of us pick from page one, not because it’s the best, but because it’s the easiest. Variety, in this case, breeds fatigue—not freedom. We choose the path of least resistance. This is the paradox of choice : the more options we have, the less satisfied we feel. A famous study from Columbia University illustrates this perfectly. Researchers set up a jam-tasting booth with two scenarios—one offering 24 flavors, the other just six. The result? Only 3% of people bought jam when faced with 24 options. But with just six, 30% made a purchase. Fewer choices led to more action. Our brains, it turns out, prefer shortcuts. We gravitate toward “best sellers,” “trending now,” or “most popular.” Not because we’ve made a thoughtful decision, but because we’re conserving energy. We’re not choosing—we’re surrendering to convenience. The Flattening of Culture: When Algorithms Replace Curiosity YouTube or Netflix follows the same pattern. Despite its vast library, 80% of viewing comes from algorithmic recommendations, not active searches. After five minutes of browsing, most users give up and click what’s served. The platform becomes less a catalog and more a tunnel—guiding us toward familiar, predictable content. We think we’re exploring, but we’re simply confirming what the algorithm has already decided. Spotify, too, reveals this shift. In the 1990s, songs averaged four minutes. Today, they hover around two and a half. Why? Because Spotify rewards artists per play—not per minute. Shorter songs mean more plays, which means more revenue. The result? A musical landscape shaped not by artistic expression, but by algorithmic efficiency. Originality is becoming a system error. In the age of AI, creativity is no longer disruptive—it’s derivative. A recent study comparing AI-generated and human-created art found that most viewers described the AI work as “safe,” “average,” and “predictable.” It lacked surprise. It lacked soul. Could an algorithm invent Picasso? No. Because AI doesn’t imagine—it averages. It reassembles patterns from the past, creating something new that feels eerily familiar. It cannot see what hasn’t been seen. It cannot dream. A World of Sameness: How Algorithms and Scale Flatten Creativity But this flattening isn’t limited to media. It’s happening across industries. Aesthetics—once a celebration of diversity and human expression—are becoming predictable. Take cars. In the 1960s, parking lots looked like rainbows: pistachio greens, sunshine yellows, powder blues. Today, 80% of cars sold are black, white, gray, or silver. Why? Because automakers play it safe. Neutral tones appeal to the masses. Algorithms confirm their popularity. And so, the 30% who crave color are left out—unable to find a pink or turquoise car without feeling “outside the norm.” Fast fashion follows the same logic. Brands like Zara, H&M, and Primark don’t invent trends—they replicate them. Scouts scour TikTok and city streets, spotting what’s popular. Within two to three weeks, a trend is mass-produced and shipped worldwide. A beige sweater worn by a teenager in New York or Dubai, and posted on Instagram becomes a global uniform. What was once original is now everywhere. Pinterest, too, flattens culture. It turns inspiration into imitation. Home renovation shows reinforce the same aesthetic: big kitchen islands, French doors, neutral palettes. Everyone wants the same thing. Individuality is replaced by algorithmic consensus. Architecture is no exception. Think of Gaudí, the Spanish architect who drew inspiration from nature. His buildings were organic, whimsical, alive. Today, we build boxes—glass rectangles in muted tones. Not because they’re beautiful, but because they’re efficient. They promise return on investment. They’re easy to replicate. And they please everyone, which means they inspire no one. This isn’t just about algorithms. It’s also about economics. When a company scales globally, it becomes a cultural bomb—wiping out local ecosystems. IKEA is a prime example, a once-thriving furniture industry has all but vanished. Artisans who crafted unique pieces can’t compete with a Swedish giant offering cheap, convenient alternatives within 30 kilometers of every town. Rediscovering Depth: Why Diversity Is More Than Decoration Globalization promised bridges between cultures. Instead, it built a global supermarket. Starbucks in 86 countries. H&M in 75. Netflix in 190. Spotify in 184. You can fly 10,000 kilometers and still land in the same aesthetic. The same coffee shop. The same fashion. The same playlist. Cities become showrooms for the same few brands. A walk down Paris or London main avenue reveals Louis Vuitton, Prada, Zara—identical to Tokyo, New York, or Dubai. Why visit a new place if it offers the same experience? But diversity isn’t just decoration. It’s the foundation of culture. Neuroscience shows that novelty sparks dopamine—the neurotransmitter that drives motivation and action. Predictability dulls us. It lowers our energy. It makes life feel like a prison, even if the walls are invisible. Studies show that walking in varied natural environments improves memory and mood far more than walking in monotonous urban settings. Nature lowers cortisol, the stress hormone. Cities raise it. A flat world isn’t just boring—it’s unhealthy. Start the Movement: Choose Wonder Over Default We’re lucky to live in a time when so much is available. Two hundred years ago, people couldn’t dream of the variety we enjoy today. But abundance isn’t enough. It’s up to us to resist the default setting—the boring world—and seek the local, the imperfect, the unpopular. Train your taste. Support creators who make from passion, not profit. Speak for yourself. Don’t post what feeds the feed—share what feeds your soul. Reclaim the habits of the real: cook, walk, draw, laugh off camera, look at the sky. Originality is a risk—but it’s the risk that makes life worth living. So let this be more than a reflection. Let it be a call. Let’s build homes that tell stories. I just started, I am happy to get out the modern Dubai Look and get more cosier, with many plant not only outdoor but indoor. Implementing natural materials in my environment. Going little agains the wanted and expected to more what I really want. Let’s wear clothes that speak of place and purpose. Let’s design spaces that surprise and stir. Let’s choose the strange, the soulful, the slow. Because the world didn’t become boring by accident—it became boring because we allowed it to. But we can choose differently. We can choose wonder. We can choose depth. We can choose to make the world original again. And it starts with you. My Reflection: Design as Resistance In architecture , this means rejecting the sterile glass box. Let’s build spaces that breathe, that surprise, that reflect the soul of a place. Let’s bring back texture, asymmetry, and emotion. In interiors , it means resisting the Pinterest-perfect kitchen. Let’s design homes that tell stories—through color, through clutter, through character. Let’s celebrate the imperfect. In fashion , it means stepping outside the algorithm. Let’s wear pieces that speak of craft, of culture, of courage. Let’s choose the strange sweater. Let’s be the pistachio car in a sea of silver. Because design isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about identity. And in a world that’s becoming more uniform, choosing originality is an act of rebellion. A beautiful one. Yours in stilettos, XOXO Henrieta

From packing boxes to mountain roads, from no-makeup days to Monte Carlo – here’s everything I learned while living offline for a while. It has been a while since my last post — and many of you kindly asked if everything was alright. My dears, I am not just alright, I am wonderfully fine. In fact, so much life has happened since we last spoke. Back in March, I had the pleasure of a visit from my dear friend and photographer. We spent days drinking far too much coffee, talking about everything and nothing, and — as happens when two women sit long enough with a camera and too much time to think — we started to question things. Life, dreams, work, and yes, even that strange little world called Social Media. It was beautiful, refreshing, and soul-shaking in the best way. But those conversations made me realize something. We are all — myself included — putting an extraordinary amount of effort into this digital life. We scroll, we post, we comment, we “connect” — yet somewhere in all of that, our real lives quietly slip by. And if I’m completely honest (which, at this age, is the only way I want to live), most of what I see online no longer interests me. I feel like I’ve seen it all. And then came the next thought: perhaps my own content isn’t very interesting either. After all, I’m not sharing groundbreaking knowledge or spiritual revelations — just pictures of myself and small glimpses of my life. Lovely? Yes. Life-changing? Hardly. And so I asked myself: why continue? My Social Media Break So I made a decision — a very easy, very freeing decision — to let Instagram grow quiet. No drama, no guilt, just space. And it felt so, so good. I didn’t miss it, not for a second. Perhaps it’s because, truthfully, I’m not much of a scroller anyway. Maybe it’s my generation, maybe just my nature — but my days are already full. I have work to do, a family to care for, a house that doesn’t run itself, a dog who insists on walks, and about a thousand little tasks that are far more rewarding than counting likes. And you know what? The pause did me good. I now believe it’s far better to post less often but with something thoughtful, meaningful, and worth reading — than to add more noise to an already noisy world. Life is meant to be lived — in real kitchens, with real people, with moments that smell like coffee and rain — not just compressed into perfect squares for strangers we will never meet. Of course, this is only my personal philosophy. If social media brings you joy, or is your livelihood, then keep sharing! But if it leaves you tired, hollow, and scrolling endlessly with nothing to show for it, then I gently suggest: put the phone down, step outside, feel the sun, take a walk, call someone who loves you. This clarity came to me after my friend’s visit — she quietly opened my eyes. And then, life did what it always does — it kept moving. Suddenly, We Were Dreaming Of Change Shortly after my friends visit, we went on a family holiday, where the dreamy boho-beach atmosphere turned us into philosophers (or maybe interior designers!) overnight. Suddenly, me and my husband, were dreaming of change — rethinking our home, our habits, our life, end of the day we are living already 8 years with no any big changes. We felt ready for something new, something we could look forward to as a family, something that would spark fresh energy. And then, as life tends to do, it surprised us. Little by little, situations aligned until we found ourselves looking for a new home. At first, we were shocked — the market had changed so much since we last searched that my jaw practically hit the floor. Homes were smaller, layouts stranger, and I wondered if we would ever find a place that felt right. But then it happened. I walked into a house not far from where we were living — and I fell in love. Actually, we all did. It felt like stepping into a little pocket of magic: a beautiful garden with tall, wise trees, a cozy yet elegant layout, and — believe it or not — even bigger than our previous villa, with two extra rooms and elegant courtyard with water features, how romantic. Even our dog had that unmistakable “this is it” look on her face — and trust me, this lady is very picky. We had lived for over eight years in a very modern, very Dubai-style house, and while it was stunning, we realized we were craving something different — something greener, cosier, something that made us feel a little more like we were back in Europe. Our old villa was gorgeous, but so much space was wasted because of its layout, and we were ready for something that felt like home in a warmer, softer way. Not easy decision had to be taken But here’s the plot twist — just shortly before we found this house, we had already planned our long 4-month holiday trip. (Yes it is possible, because we homeschool — and yes, this year I pushed like a crazy woman to get everything finished two months earlier so we could take this big trip. Freedom is the best part of homeschooling, and for me, it’s absolutely essential.) So there we were, deciding whether to take the house, replant half of my beloved garden, pack up an entire home, and move… all just shortly before leaving for four months of travels. You can probably imagine the chaos. I was running around with garden gloves in one hand, packing tape in the other, and a big smile on my face (okay, maybe not always a smile — sometimes a “don’t talk to me right now” face). But we did it! Somehow, we moved in, replanted everything with help of 6 gardeners I am not kidding, and then — off we went — on the most incredible European adventure in a motorhome. Our Europe Trip The whole idea behind this trip was actually very simple: our daughter is now 11, and we thought this is the perfect age to show her the world — or at least a good part of Europe. Growing up in the Middle East, she knows this part of the world quite well, and although we visit Europe regularly, we wanted to go deeper — to show her most of the countries, cities, and cultures before (let’s be honest) Europe turns into complete madness. And I have to say — it really was the perfect time. We had an absolutely amazing trip. We rented a completely new, very large mobile home (and yes, I’m mentioning this for a reason: this is my official tip of the year  — rent the biggest mobile home possible for such a long trip. Space is happiness. Trust me on this one!) We had magical mornings in the mountains, lazy afternoons by lakes, and sunsets so beautiful they almost looked staged for Instagram. We visited many of what feels like every “must-see” city, ate in countless charming cafés, and admired history, culture, and architecture until our heads were spinning. And the weather — oh, the weather! The sun followed us faithfully every single day, as if it knew that I am terrified of the cold. We were very, very lucky; this summer in Europe was incredible literally everywhere! But here comes the funny (and slightly humbling) part — traveling with an 11-year-old girl in 2025 is… well, let’s just say… a social experiment. While we were passionately explaining the glorious history of Florence, she was passionately explaining the latest Roblox gossip to us. While we stood at the top of a mountain saying, “Look how stunning this view is!” she was saying, “Do you think there’s Wi-Fi here?” Don’t get me wrong — she did enjoy the trip. She was curious and had her moments of wonder, but my advice to anyone considering a grand European road trip with a preteen: think twice. They might prefer to hang out with their friends (or at least their phone) instead of spending 24/7 with two philosopher-parents like me and my husband. We wanted to have long talks about history, art, and architecture, and she… well, she tried to look interested, but we could see that her mind was clearly somewhere else. We laughed about it a lot — and honestly, these little contrasts made the trip even more memorable. And Me? Oh boy ... I Also Learned My Personal Lesson. Remember how we fell in love with that boho-clean lifestyle on our previous holiday? Well, that little love affair with minimalism completely conspired against me — and somehow pushed us to make all these dramatic life changes. Not only did we move houses, but I also, I very dramatically, decided to “switch my lifestyle.” Yes, my friends, the grand lesson of 2025 : after years of being a proper fashion diva, I decided it was time to see how it feels on the other side.  You know — to be that natural, no-makeup, humble, down-to-earth woman. (Instagram swears it’s liberating, right?) And to be fair, during the move — swapping houses, hauling plants in 40°C heat, and trying to create a new garden from scratch — it actually felt good. I was too busy to dress up, too sweaty to wear makeup, and honestly… I was secretly proud of my messy “working girl” bun. So, completely blinded by my new-found happiness and this fresh “simplified me,” I packed for our big four-month trip without makeup, without fancy outfits and — wait for it — without my beloved Dyson hairdryer. Yes, my friends, I went fully au naturel. And oh Yes… I was wrong. The first week was fine — after all, we were living the road trip dream, right? But then, somewhere between the Swiss mountains and the Italian lakes, I started noticing things. Everyone around us was also makeup-free, dressed in practical "kind of hiking" clothes, very… natural. And suddenly, it all felt so dull. Not because people weren’t beautiful — they were — but because no one seemed to make the slightest effort to look radiant. And then came my big wake-up call. One afternoon I heard myself actually gossiping about others, “Why does everyone look so boring? Where are all the glamorous women hiding?! The hiking clothes everyone wears here are a disgrace.” And then it hit me like a truck: I looked exactly  the same. 🙈 Let me tell you — I did not feel good about it. My hair was permanently in a bun, my outfits were too simple, and the “natural me” was clearly not the happiest me. Suddenly, I started longing for my lipstick, my mascara, my heels, my silk blouses — even my Dyson! And right then and there, I regretted my brave decision to leave it all behind. Hmm, I know — I was on a road trip in a mobile home, everything was “fine”… but actually, not really. Everyone around me was perfectly content with the natural, practical vibe — but deep down, I knew: this is not me. This little experiment had to end. Fashion has been a part of me for as long as I can remember — it’s practically in my DNA. My grandmother was a true grand dame , the kind of woman who knew exactly what was appropriate for every occasion. She was my inspiration, my style compass, and I can still hear her voice so clearly. Whenever I came back from an event, she would ask, “My darling, how was it? Were you the prettiest one there?” And I would blush and say, “Oh, Granny, no, why do you ask?” And she would just raise an eyebrow and reply, “If not, then why did you even go?” And now, I finally get it. She wasn’t just talking about vanity — she was talking about effort.  About showing respect for yourself and for others by looking and feeling your best. Clothes do make people. And makeup? Well, lucky you if you don’t need it — but I certainly do. I look better, I feel better, and at my age, a little creativity (and a little mascara) never hurt anyone. I am, after all, an artist — and a bit of paint is simply part of my process. So yes — lesson learned. By the time we reached Monte Carlo, I was back. The old me. The real  me. With slightly more luggage trailing behind me, slightly less money in my bank account (Monte Carlo has that effect), but who cares? I got what I needed to feel like myself again. I was happy, I felt alive, and I was ready to shine. So, we traveled. We saw incredible places, ticked off some long-held wishes, and visited places we have already been before but also some we had always dreamed about. It was truly a wonderful, unforgettable holiday. And I suppose now you understand my social media silence — I was simply busy living life (and let’s be honest, if you’re living it fully, who has time for Instagram?). Just kidding… a little. 😉 But — and here comes my honesty again — it was also long trip . I started missing home, my animals, my new house waiting to be decorated, and that simple peace of doing absolutely nothing. We spent the first part of the trip in the mobile home, the second part in hotels — and let me tell you, nothing in this world beats your good old bed at home. We were back, just in time for the start of school. I am back in my garden, was decorating the house the entire month now, putting the finishing touches, creating my new photo studio — which, by the way, is even better than the previous one. Life feels good again.  We had a fabulous family time, and we all learned a lot from this trip. I learned that our daughter is in that magical age where we, her parents, are officially too much, too embarrassing, and too boring — which, of course, me and my husband absolutely enjoy, because we love to be exactly that. At least we all have something to laugh about. And me? Well, I am now 47 and I got my personal life lesson: I am who I am. I love “wasting” time dressing up, wearing heels, putting on makeup, and styling my hair exactly how I like it. It’s not just vanity — it’s joy, it’s art, it’s self-expression, and it’s me. Somewhere up there, my grandmother is watching, nodding in approval, and reminding me to keep her legacy alive. So yes, my dears — I am back, with the last message to all of you: traveling is great, but from a certain age, it's simply overrated. I have seen everything, I have been to many places, but there is nothing more satisfying than being back home with my loved ones, with my animals, and in my own bed. So if you didn’t have the chance to travel yourself, do not worry. I did it for you. I was there, I have seen it, and I want to tell you, you didn’t miss much. Be happy for every day you are living on this earth. Every place is the same; everywhere are people like you, full of dreams and hard work. Some places are beautiful, some less, but the best part is your own space, your own everyday life, which should make you happy, not somewhere far away. Your home is where your family is.  I hope to become more active in sharing my thoughts and ideas with you. Let's discover what life has in store for me. I have a lot on my mind, with numerous ideas and projects, but there are only 24 hours in a day. We will see how well I manage my time. Yours, again back in Stilettos, Henrieta

This summer has been a cultural treasure trove for me and my family. As we journey across Europe, we're not just soaking in the breathtaking landscapes and historical landmarks, but also observing the rich tapestry of cultural practices. Some of these behaviors have been delightful, while others have left me genuinely surprised. One aspect, in particular, that has caught my attention is the way people consume their food. In today’s article, I won’t dive into what people eat—though that in itself is a topic worthy of its own shocking chapter. Instead, I want to focus on how people are eating, a subject that has stirred up quite a bit of reflection on my part. We live in a world where life moves at breakneck speed, and technology is constantly at our fingertips. It’s no wonder that many of the traditions that once bound us together, creating a sense of family and community, are slowly being eroded. But what has truly stood out to me during our travels is just how quickly the art of table manners is slipping through our fingers. It’s not uncommon these days to witness families eating in front of the TV, their plates balanced precariously on their laps as they binge-watch the latest series. Others are perched on couches, barely taking their eyes off their phones or tablets as they eat, while some are even multitasking on their computers, their meals becoming an afterthought. What was once a sacred ritual—setting the table, sitting down together, and engaging in meaningful conversation—has, in many homes, become a rare occurrence. And to be completely honest, it has shocked me. Seeing this shift in such a fundamental human experience has left me feeling disheartened. The simple act of sitting together at the table, sharing not just food but stories, laughter, and a moment of connection, seems to be vanishing in the hustle and bustle of modern life. I have experienced, in the most luxurious hotels, people not enjoying the beauty of the place and the variety of delicious food prepared with love for them, but instead, they are scrolling on their phones. The most shocking hotel experience for me was seeing children coming down for breakfast in their pajamas, with iPads in hand, showing how little they, or perhaps their parents—actually care about the occasion. Meanwhile, my family spends a minimum of 30 minutes getting ready for breakfast to look our best, showing respect for the place. We had similar experiences last year, and I just can't get used to it. No matter if it’s a 5-star or 2-star hotel, I am not ready to accept such disrespect. But fine, this shift in behavior isn't just about where we eat and how we look; it reflects a deeper change in how we value and preserve traditions. My recent visits to museums and historical castles, where I marveled at the exquisite porcelains and elaborate table settings, inspired me to reflect on this. The beauty of these traditions—from eating at a beautifully set table, on lovely porcelain, with fresh-cut flowers in vases, to the meticulous arrangement of silverware—reminds us that eating is more than just a biological need. It is a celebration of culture, family, and elegance. I can already hear some saying, "Easy to say if you have money and the time to set your table." The answer is simple: even when I had no money in my life, I did everything possible to make my bed and set my table to show respect to myself and to others. I just want to remind everyone that it is possible to bring a little bit of that culture and elegance into our everyday routines. The essence of table manners goes beyond the act of eating; it's about honoring the experience, the people you're with, and the environment you're in. It’s about teaching our children the importance of respect—respect for the food, the time taken to prepare it, and the effort put into creating a pleasant atmosphere. By setting the table, we’re also setting the stage for meaningful interactions, fostering a sense of connection that’s so often lost in the chaos of modern life. In an age where convenience often trumps tradition, it’s easy to overlook the small rituals that once held so much importance. But by taking a moment to appreciate these traditions—whether it’s dressing up for breakfast or setting the table with care—we’re not just preserving the past; we’re enriching our present and future. It’s a reminder that elegance and culture are not luxuries reserved for special occasions but can be woven into the fabric of our daily lives. This whole experience really got me thinking—why are people like this? What’s behind this shift in behavior? Curious to dig deeper, I started exploring some statistics on table manners and modern dining habits. Statistics on Table Manners Today Finding exact numbers on this trend isn’t straightforward, but the data I did uncover paints a concerning picture. Studies suggest that fewer than half of families regularly eat dinner together anymore. This decline in family meals is further highlighted by a 2022 survey from the Food Marketing Institute, which found that only 30% of families report sitting down for meals without any distractions. Whether it’s the television, smartphones, or tablets, these distractions have become the norm rather than the exception, signaling a significant decline in the practice of traditional table manners. But then I started to wonder—does this have something to do with wealth? Are people wealthier today, and is that impacting how they value these traditions? Interestingly, the answer isn’t so clear-cut. While it’s true that, on average, people today have more disposable income than in previous generations, this increase in wealth hasn’t necessarily translated into better manners or a greater appreciation for traditional values. In fact, the opposite seems to be happening. According to recent studies, while the median household income has risen, so has the pace of life. With more money often comes more stress, longer work hours, and less time for the simple, meaningful rituals that once defined our daily routines, like sitting down to a well-set table. The convenience culture has taken over—meals are now often quick, on-the-go, or consumed while multitasking. Moreover, lifestyle changes have played a major role. The rise of dual-income households, the constant presence of technology, and the growing trend of fast food and ready-made meals have all contributed to the erosion of traditional dining practices. So, while people might be wealthier, they seem to be poorer in terms of time, attention, and appreciation for the simple act of sharing a meal. This realization makes it even more important to consciously revive these traditions. Wealth, after all, isn’t just measured in dollars; it’s also about the richness of our experiences and the values we pass on to our children. Setting the table, enjoying a meal together, and practicing good manners might seem like small things, but they can add immeasurable value to our lives. Bringing Tradition Back to the Table: Simple Tips for Modern Families Reviving the art of table manners doesn’t have to be a daunting task. In fact, with just a few small changes, you can transform mealtime into a cherished tradition that your family will look forward to. Here are some simple tips to help you get started: Set Aside a Few Minutes to Prepare : Finding time to set the table might seem impossible in today’s busy world, but it’s easier than you think. Dedicate just five minutes before each meal to set the table. Make it a part of your routine, just like brushing your teeth or making your bed. The key is consistency. Even on the busiest days, a simple, well-set table can make all the difference. Involve the Kids : Turn setting the table into a family activity. Get your kids involved by giving them specific tasks, like placing the napkins, arranging the silverware, or even selecting a centerpiece. This not only teaches them responsibility but also helps them understand the importance of tradition and teamwork. Plus, kids are more likely to appreciate a meal they’ve had a hand in preparing. Create a No-Device Rule : Make mealtimes a sacred space by setting a rule for no phones, tablets, or TVs at the table. Encourage conversation instead. Share stories about your day, ask questions, and engage with each other. This not only strengthens family bonds but also makes mealtimes more enjoyable and meaningful. Start a Tradition of Collecting Dining Sets : One of the most beautiful traditions you can start is collecting dining sets. I’ve been collecting dining sets since I was a young girl, and it’s a passion I’ve continued with my husband. We have one major collection that we’ve built together over the years, adding new pieces whenever we find something special. Of course, pieces get broken from time to time, but that just adds to the history of the collection. One day, this collection will be a treasured heirloom for my daughter, just as my mother passed hers down to me. You Don’t Have to Spend a Fortune : Beautiful, stylish dining sets don’t have to be expensive. Today, you can find elegant and affordable options that suit any budget. Whether you’re starting a new collection or adding to an existing one, the key is to choose pieces that bring you joy and reflect your personal style. Even a simple, well-chosen set can elevate your dining experience and add a touch of elegance to everyday meals. By incorporating these tips into your routine, you’re not just setting the table—you’re setting the stage for memorable meals, meaningful conversations, and lasting traditions. It’s a small investment of time that pays off in the richness it adds to your life. So, next time you sit down to eat, remember that you’re doing more than just filling your stomach; you’re nurturing your soul, your family, and the traditions that make life beautiful. To round this article I prepared a comprehensive guide on setting up a basic dining table and a more formal dining setup, along with some tips on how to involve the family and make mealtime special. The Very Basic Dining Table Setup Guide For everyday meals or casual dining, the essentials you need are minimal but effective: Plates : Dinner Plates : At least one per person. Typically, you’ll want to have 8 to 12 dinner plates to accommodate larger gatherings. Salad Plates : Optional, but useful if you frequently serve salad as a separate course. Cutlery : Forks : Place the fork on the left side of the dinner plate. You’ll need one per person, so have a set of at least 8 to 12. Knives : Place the knife to the right of the dinner plate, with the blade facing inward. Again, 8 to 12 is ideal. Spoons : If you’re serving soup or dessert, place the spoon to the right of the knife. Glasses : Water Glasses : Positioned above the knife. Have at least one per person. Additional Glasses : For casual dining, you might not need more than water glasses, but if you regularly serve wine, consider adding one or two additional glasses per person. Napkins : Napkins can be placed to the left of the forks or on the plate. They add a touch of elegance and are a simple way to make the meal feel more special. Placemats or Tablecloth : Use a placemat under each setting or a simple tablecloth for a neat appearance. If you want to level up, here is for you: The Formal Dining Table Setup Guide For more elaborate dinners or special occasions, the setup becomes more intricate: Plates : Charger Plates : These large plates remain under the dinner plate throughout the meal. One per person. Dinner Plates : Placed on top of the charger. Salad Plates : Positioned on top of the dinner plate if serving salad as a separate course. Soup Bowls : Placed on the salad plate if soup is served first. Bread and Butter Plates : Placed to the top left of the charger. Cutlery : Dinner Forks : To the left of the charger. Salad Forks : Placed to the left of the dinner fork. Dinner Knives : To the right of the charger. Soup Spoons : Placed to the right of the knife if soup is served. Butter Knives : Positioned horizontally on the bread plate. Glassware : Water Glass : Above the knife. Wine Glasses : Positioned to the right of the water glass. Red wine glasses are usually placed above the white wine glass. Napkins : Placed on the plate, under the forks, or creatively folded and set above the plate. Additional Items : Dessert Spoons and Forks : Positioned horizontally above the dinner plate or brought out with dessert. Place Cards : For a more formal touch, especially with larger gatherings. Centerpieces : Keep them low to encourage conversation across the table. In conclusion, while it might seem old-fashioned to insist on table manners in today’s fast-paced world, doing so can bring a sense of purpose and tradition back into our lives. So, the next time you sit down for a meal, whether it’s in a grand hotel or your own kitchen, take a moment to appreciate the surroundings, the food, and the company. Put away the screens, set the table with intention, and bring back a little of that old-world charm. You might just find that it turns an ordinary meal into something extraordinary. Bon Appetite, Yours Always in Stilettos 👠 Henrieta

Hello, my dear friends! It’s been quite some time since we last connected, hasn't it? My little family and I have recently emerged from a delightful sabbatical—a precious period where the world of academia was replaced with the boundless realms of fun and togetherness. Now, as we briefly pause before diving into our upcoming "official" vacation, I feel compelled to share with you the reflections and revelations that have illuminated my days. Nestled here in the enchanting city of Dubai, one might easily assume my life to be an unending sequence of sun-drenched days and luxurious leisure. However, life, even in its most glamorous settings, comes with its share of routines and responsibilities. Often, I find myself so deeply entrenched in the daily demands of household management that my sole wish is to collapse into bed at the end of the day. Yet, these past weeks have prompted a beautiful realization: the essence of living joyfully need not be confined to vacations. Our recent days have been painted with the vibrant colors of spontaneity and pleasure, as we've done only what we desired. We've set aside the pressing 'to-do' lists and instead immersed ourselves in the simple art of living and enjoying. And I must tell you, this practice should not be reserved for holidays alone but can wonderfully become a part of our everyday existence. Here are a few threads from the tapestry of our experiences, woven with the intention to inspire: New Encounters In a city as diverse and dynamic as Dubai, each day offers a canvas for new connections. But let’s not think this is possible only in Dubai; even the smallest towns offer opportunities for forging new friendships. While I deeply cherish the bonds I've formed with long-standing friends, I’ve discovered that embracing new acquaintances can dramatically broaden one’s horizon. Engaging with strangers, inviting new viewpoints and stories into our lives, can refresh our perspectives and enrich our understanding of the world. Remember, every friend was once a stranger, and each person you meet carries a universe of experiences just waiting to be explored. And who knows? This might just lead you into new dimensions, new fun experiences. There is definitely nothing wrong with meeting new people; end of the day, these new acquaintances could soon be introduced to your old friends, enriching your circle and adding vibrant, new energy that everyone can appreciate. Discovering New Venues Venturing into unfamiliar settings can rekindle a sense of wonder and curiosity often dulled by routine. Why not replace the familiar with a dash of adventure? Visit a new café, take a different route on your evening walk, or explore a part of your city that remains a mystery. Each new place holds secrets waiting to be uncovered, offering fresh insights and unexpected delights. And in the evening, before you go to bed, you’ll find yourself with much to ponder—reevaluating your experiences, reflecting on the interior design of the places you've seen, perhaps even gathering inspiration for changes in your own home. I adore visiting new places for this very reason; it keeps my brain active and engaged. Rekindle Your Inner Youth Think back to the wild, carefree days of your youth. What made you laugh? What exhilarating escapades did you embark on? Recapturing that fearless energy isn't just about nostalgia; it's about reactivating a part of yourself that knew how to make the most out of every moment. Why not be that vivacious again? This past weekend, we spent time at one of Dubai's beach resorts. Imagine this: a beach party with a fantastic DJ, dancers, balloons, and bubble cannons. It wasn't just for the kids. Adults, parents, and even grandparents joined in the madness! We danced, sang, and laughed until our faces hurt. It was a powerful reminder that letting go and having fun isn't just for the young—it's for everyone, at any age. As I took time to observe the joy around me, I realized something profound: when we collectively decide to embrace happiness and let go of our inhibitions, we create a powerful, positive energy that benefits us all. This isn’t just about having fun; it’s about creating a mindset where joy permeates even the mundane aspects of our daily lives. So, my dear friends, as we step into this new week, some of you might face challenges, while others might sail smoothly. Remember, the quality of our days largely depends on our attitude. Dig into your treasure trove of youthful escapades. Let those memories bring a smile to your face and propel you forward. Seek out adventures that make your heart race, do something unexpected, and maybe even a little embarrassing, to share a laugh with your loved ones. Trust me, these moments will be the ones you cherish forever. They will be the smiles that brighten your future days and the happy memories that might one day lift your spirits when you most need a boost. Here’s to a fabulous start to the week, filled with energy and delightful moments. Let’s make every day feel a bit more like a holiday, shall we? Wishing you all the joy and adventure you can handle, Yours, always in stilettos, Henrieta

Hello, beautiful souls! At the delightful age of 45, I’ve embarked on a profound journey—one that’s less about the fabrics I drape myself in and more about the thoughts and beliefs that clothe my spirit. This journey isn't paved with the latest trends or high-end fashion; instead, it’s filled with moments of self-reflection, acceptance, and a hearty dose of self-belief. For most of my life, I’ve been insatiably curious, a seeker of knowledge and wisdom. I’ve devoured books, listened intently to the wise, and pursued learning with the vigor of a runway model chasing her next big break. This endless curiosity taught me a crucial lesson: the true essence of life, understanding myself, and believing in myself isn’t captured in the annals of history or the promises of the future—it’s right here, in the now, knowing who I am and what I want. Living in the moment, embracing my thoughts, rusting myself, and accepting my personal mistakes and beliefs have become my new vogue. This shift didn't happen overnight. It was a gradual realization that what I think, how I feel, and what I believe are valid—immensely so. Each of us has a unique inner compass that’s worth trusting. When someone tries to steer me in a direction that doesn’t align with my own, I’ve learned to say, "Thank you for your perspective, but let me find my own path." I recently had a fascinating conversation that got me thinking. When we watch a movie or documentary, isn't it intriguing how quickly we can discern right from wrong? We effortlessly identify the villain, criticize government actions, and empathize with characters undergoing struggles. We oppose aggression and wars from our living room couches and even forgive characters because, well, they had their reasons, didn’t they? But here's a curious thing: why do we find it so hard to apply these clear judgments to our own lives? Why, when it comes to real-world situations involving ourselves or those around us, do we often turn a blind eye, allow systems to work against us, or lose respect for others who oppose us? Why is it that we understand every narrative twist and character motivation on screen, but in the tapestry of our own lives, we sometimes fail to navigate our paths with the same clarity? Perhaps it’s because reality requires us to stop and hold up a mirror to ourselves, a challenge far tougher than sitting through a two-hour film. It's hard to admit that it's time for change, to trust ourselves more, and to conquer our fears. Many of us, particularly as we age, aren't just running from wrinkles but from the realization that we might not be fully enjoying our lives. There’s this looming sense of rushing against time—to find a partner, travel, finally admit that is time to have kids, or simply find a place to settle down because, why not? Isn’t happiness right where you are just as valid as any grand adventure? Schools teach us many things, but rarely do they instruct us on the reality of the world; they prepare us for the rat race, not for tranquility or contentment with who we are. They push us to strive for more, but what about celebrating being calm, being settled, and finding joy in the simple every day? Crossing into my 40s has been liberating in many ways. I no longer feel the urge to be everywhere, do everything, or attend every lavish brunch with strangers I’ll never meet again. Recognizing that I don't need to dance at every party or chase every trend has been incredibly freeing. It's a recognition that perhaps the most fulfilling path is the one we carve for ourselves, regardless of external expectations. And in this beautiful, sometimes chaotic journey, I have discovered a powerful truth: I am a superwoman. And guess what? You are too. Each of us possesses an inner strength that is nothing short of heroic. We are the masters of our narratives, the captains of our souls, and believing in ourselves is the first step toward unleashing our true potential. Today, I stand more confident than ever—not because the world reaffirms it, but because I affirm it within myself. Each morning, I wake up with gratitude for who I am and excitement for who I am becoming. The doubts that used to cloud my days are now just passing shadows, outshone by the bright light of self-acceptance. So, to everyone reading this, remember: the journey to self-love and acceptance is the most liberating path you can walk. It frees you from the weight of others’ judgments and connects you deeply to the essence of who you are. Start trusting in your own incredible abilities ( you have trained this enough long in front of the TV screen judging whats wrong or right ), and be proud of what you’ve achieved. Your experiences, your growth, and your resilience are your crown—wear it proudly. Let's learn to take a step back and appreciate where we are, who we are with, and find peace in the notion that sometimes, the simplest lives can be the most rewarding. As we each continue to navigate our unique paths, let's do so with kindness for ourselves and each other. Embrace your imperfections, celebrate your quirks, and never forget that in the grand tapestry of life, you are a vital thread, vibrant and strong and you are WORTH IT! If you ever find yourself feeling lost, remember, it's all part of the journey. We all need time to find our way through the mazes of life. During these moments, it's crucial to pause and reflect. Give yourself the space to breathe and listen to what your heart is truly saying. Engage in activities that reconnect you with your passions and joys, whether it’s a quiet walk in nature, journaling your thoughts, or revisiting old hobbies that once made your heart sing. Sometimes, the simple act of stepping back can provide the clarity you need to move forward confidently. Moreover, it's important to surround yourself with people who uplift and understand you. Seek out communities—both online and offline—that share your values and offer support. Conversations with these like-minded souls can be incredibly reaffirming and help illuminate the path back to yourself when the road seems murky. Let’s also take it upon ourselves to be the example for our younger generation. They too are navigating their own paths, often through the noisy and demanding realm of social media, which can distort reality and undermine self-esteem. They face challenges in this digital age that we never encountered, with constant comparisons and relentless pressures to measure up to often unattainable standards. We can guide them by sharing our own experiences and the lessons we’ve learned about self-acceptance and inner confidence. Let’s teach them to value real interactions over digital likes, to appreciate their unique qualities, and to understand that true self-worth comes from within, not from online validation. By fostering an environment of openness and understanding, we can help them build resilience against the chaos of the online world. Together, by embodying confidence and self-love, we can inspire the next generation to rise above the fray and find their own true north amidst the whirlwind of modern life. Let's be the mentors who not only preach but also practice the art of living authentically. Let’s show them that, despite the challenges, it’s possible to emerge stronger and more self-assured by embracing every aspect of their journey. That peace, simplicity, and contentment are treasures worth seeking, and that sometimes, the best party is the one happening right at home, with people who truly matter. Stay present, stay brave, and most importantly, stay wonderfully you. Yours in stiletos, Henrieta

Hello, my dear friends! How was your weekend? I hope everyone had a chance to unwind and spend some quality time with family. As I hinted in my previous post, our weekend was dedicated to the high seas—a meticulously planned boat weekend. So, let's dive into the luxurious lifestyle Dubai offers and recount the unexpectedly delightful weekend we spent. We were graciously invited by a well-known estate developer to spend a day on the famously exclusive "The World" islands—a name many of you might recognize here in Dubai. This gathering was organized for boat owners from across the city, and given my familiarity with Dubai's social scene, I was bracing myself for the usual spectacle: stunning models in unimaginably tiny bikinis and young entrepreneurs flaunting their sleek yachts. Yes, I expected a tableau right out of a glamorous music video! However, to my delightful surprise, the atmosphere this time was entirely different. Instead of a flashy showcase of wealth and opulence, we found ourselves amidst a scene straight out of a family holiday postcard. There were plenty of families with kids, elderly couples enjoying the sun on their yachts, and genuinely grounded people just relaxing. The day was filled with simple pleasures—no competitive flaunting or ostentatious displays. We witnessed heartwarming scenes of sporty games, barbecues, and children swimming in the sea with their grandparents. The atmosphere was absolutely lovely, a refreshing change that reminded us that luxury isn't always about extravagance; it can also be about the joy of community and shared experiences. This part of our weekend was tremendously enjoyable, offering a rare glimpse into a different kind of luxury—one that values serenity and simple joys over spectacle with stunning view of Dubai. For this unexpectedly heartwarming gathering, I give the luxury life in Dubai a perfect score of 10. And now, let's talk about the pain part. I'm giving you a fair warning, this perspective is purely my own—others, like my husband, see it quite differently. We're a boat family; I've been a sailing enthusiast since my twenties and adore everything about being on the water. But there's a limit to my love, especially when it comes to certain "boy toys" that are just too much for me. Let me introduce you to the Donzi, a boat that's famous for being one of the fastest in the world. Sounds glamorous, doesn't it? It even had a starring role in Miami Vice movie, smuggling drugs with the cops lagging hopelessly behind. This boat is the real deal, deserving all its hype, and it's quite rare in the Middle East, making it an absolute head-turner. When you're on the Donzi, you feel like a bullet slicing through the waves, arriving at your destination in a fraction of the usual time. It's thrilling to think we could outrun anyone if it came to a race. However, that's where the fantasy ends and reality begins. This beauty isn't just fast; it's also thunderously loud and, frankly, quite terrifying. For those dreaming of showing off on this sleek speedster, forget it. You're practically invisible with the speed at which you're moving. Makeup on the Donzi? You might as well be trying to paint during a hurricane. And your beautifully styled hair or that fancy hat? They'll be history, scattered across the ocean before you can even whisper "Habibi." Imagine trying to create Instagram-worthy content aboard this beast. You’d need a full makeup and hair crew ready at the dock just to put you back together upon arrival. And false eyelashes? They’re a no-go unless you want to see them fluttering away with the sea breeze as soon as we throttle up. It's a bit of a mess, honestly. And all this chaos is compounded by my husband’s love for speed. He tries to start off cautious, but it’s not long before he’s pushing the boat to its limits, leaving me and our daughter with expressions of sheer terror, while he’s all smiles at the helm. So, NO, comfort is not a word I’d associate with the Donzi. It jumps, it's loud, and while it's an adrenaline rush, it’s certainly not relaxing. This boat might as well come with a warning label: "For thrill-seekers and natural beauties only—makeup and fancy accessories strictly prohibited." It also reminds me of another high-maintenance member of our car collection: the G Wagon. It's akin to Donzi—not in speed, but in how spectacularly uncomfortable it is, despite its outrageous price tag. The joy it brings to my husband's face, however, is truly priceless. He seems to be the only one in the family who really gets it. We all know that after an hour in those seats, you're in for a backache. The ride is anything but smooth, and don't get me started on the doors—they clang shut with a noise that's more scrapyard than luxury. But, according to him, that's exactly what you're paying for. Hello, 2024? Are we really still doing this? But let's not leave all the men to shoulder the blame for our questionable luxury choices. I, too, have my indulgences. Take, for instance, my collection of Louis Vuitton bags. You rarely see them in my photos, and there's a good reason: they are so heavy it feels like you're carting around bricks, so I barely use them. It's absolutely ridiculous, and I can't help but laugh at the absurdity. There’s a touch of silliness in embracing such impractical luxuries, yet here I am, still drawn to them. Just a few days ago, we popped into Balenciaga. Why? Who knows. Their new collection of bags could have been straight out of a 1989 market on the Polish border—back when the Iron Curtain was open, and everyone was eager to grab goods from beyond their borders. My grandmother bought exactly same looking bag back then, and I remember finding its design quite peculiar. Today, those same designs are coveted by fashionistas everywhere. What irony! This time, though, they didn't tempt me, but it's a stark reminder of how our perceptions of luxury can be so skewed. So, my dears, as we wrap up this discussion on the lavish lifestyle that many believe is the pinnacle of living, I urge you to pause and reflect. Is the pursuit of these luxuries truly worth it? Not everything that glitters is gold, and often, the price we pay isn't just monetary—it's a compromise on comfort, practicality, and sometimes, even our happiness. Let's not forget that the real luxuries in life may be the moments and memories we create with loved ones, not the flashy tokens we accumulate. Take a deep breath and consider what truly enriches your life. The adage "not everything that shines is gold" rings especially true in the world of luxury. Even aboard a glamorous yacht, you might find the roar of the engine overwhelming, or discover that driving a G Wagon for hours is less than comfortable, and those expensive designer bags can feel like a ton of bricks after a while. I'm grateful to have experienced all of this firsthand, and I sincerely thank God for giving me the perspective to see and compare these aspects of luxury. I am delighted to share with you that the truest form of luxury isn't something you can buy; it's the time you spend with the people you love unconditionally—your family. It’s about having trustworthy friends and a pet who adores you simply for your presence. Remember, the luster of material things will inevitably fade, but what remains when the money runs out? Will the concierge from that five-star hotel you frequented still care? Unlikely. It’s your family, your spouse, your children, and yes, even your dog or cat, who will look into your eyes and reassure you that everything will be okay. So, cherish what truly matters. Wealth may come and go, but your life, health, and loved ones will always be there for you. This kind of luxury—being surrounded by love and giving love in return—is not hard to obtain. It simply requires us to be kind and compassionate. I hope this reflection inspires you to appreciate the everyday blessings and recognize that at the end of the day, we are all human. What really matters isn't the flashy trappings of a luxurious lifestyle, but the simple, genuine connections we forge with those around us. With love to human kind, Yours almost ALWAYS in Stiletos, Henrieta

Hello, my dearest decor enthusiasts! As the sun sets on my little girl's single-digit years, we're gearing up to transition her space from a playful paradise to a pre-teen haven. Yes, it's time to sideline the toys and make way for a makeover that suits a budding lady of taste and style! The challenge? My daughter is turning ten and, oh my, how her tastes have evolved! Armed with interior design apps on her iPad, she's already showing signs of a future design maven. "Mum, I need my room to have more aesthetic," she declares. Deciphering her vision of 'aesthetic' has been quite the educational journey for me! She envisions a sanctuary swathed in earth tones, with lush greenery breathing life into every nook. Gone will be the days of cartoon animal posters; in their place, we're thinking of peppering the walls with chic, motivational slogans—nothing like a little daily inspiration as she dresses each morning! For Etsy Prints - click here Speaking of dressing, what’s a young fashionista without her mirrors? We’re planning to add expansive mirrors to not only fuel her dress-up sessions but also to amplify the natural light and make her room feel like a grand ballroom. Perfect for a little cheerleader who’s always pirouetting and practicing her routines! Now, let’s talk furniture. From day one, we chose timeless pieces shipped directly from the Netherlands—beautiful, durable, and environmentally friendly. These pieces will stay, continuing to grow with her and serving as a testament to sustainable choices in our home. Here's where we hit a bit of a design debate: plants. My daughter loves the idea of fake plants for their evergreen charm and no-fuss upkeep. However, the thought of plastic plants off-gassing into her sanctuary doesn't sit well with me. So, we compromised. I've propagated several of my robust Money plants, ready to bring that touch of green she desires without the plastic side effects. It’s a wonderful way to teach her about nurturing life, reminding her that care extends beyond pets—our leafy friends need love too! This room transformation is more than just a renovation; it's about crafting a space that reflects her emerging identity and supports her passions. It’s about grounding her surroundings in nature and inspiration, encouraging her to dream big and nurture her inner designer. Now, let’s dive into the palette that will paint our next masterpiece—her bedroom. Staying true to the aesthetic of our entire home, we’re keeping the walls crisp and white. But to warm up the space, we’re weaving in shades of light brown and refreshing green. Imagine this: rattan baskets tucking neatly into her shelves, a boho round carpet laying a stylish foundation, and a collection of light brown accessories dotting the landscape. It's like a Pinterest board come to life! During a scavenger hunt around the house for potential treasures, my daughter eyed some statement pieces that she adored, but in hues that didn’t quite tickle her fancy. Enter DIY Mum, armed with my trusty Rust-Oleum Chalked Style sprays—recently tested on our "Cat Recovery Refuge" and perfect for turning the mundane into the magical. Anything that looks a tad boring is about to embark on a transformation journey into something exciting. One project I’m particularly excited about is transforming her plain old writing desk into a multifunctional space where beauty meets productivity. By adding a mirror and crafting wooden storage for her makeup and accessories, it will serve as both a vanity and a study area. Speaking of transformations, let me share a heartwarming story. Recently, my daughter embarked on a room-clearing mission, deciding it was time to part with her toys. Unlike the teary-eyed negotiations of the past, she was determined to declutter. We placed her toys in front of our house for the community to enjoy, and within hours, they found new homes. Watching her joy as she made other children happy was a proud moment for me. It was a clear sign; my little girl is blossoming into a thoughtful young lady. As we gear up for her 10th birthday—and mine too, it seems—I’m not just celebrating a decade of her life but also my journey as a mother. It’s a dual celebration of growth, love, and the joy of giving her the best I can. I wish for the strength and means to support her becoming a kind, healthy, and happy person. Reflecting on my own childhood, my mother once painted a vast forest and a giant tree in my room. While we didn't have endless inspirations or resources back then, the sparkle in her eyes as she worked on that project is a memory I cherish deeply. I know I’ll have that same sparkle when I finish my daughter’s room. Because, in the end, it's all about adding a little more happiness to our lives. So, fingers crossed for our project! Home decorating has always been a passion of mine, and I’m buzzing with excitement to get started. With the help of my husband and my daughter, I know this transformation will be nothing short of amazing. I can't wait to share the progress and the final reveal with all of you. Here some more ideas how her room may ends. Stay tuned for updates, and wish us luck—we’re diving into a world of creativity, laughter, and probably a bit of paint in our hair! I’ll keep you posted! Yours in stilettos, Henrieta

Women's Fashion in Dubai is Changing, From Heels to Sneakers? Hello, fabulous fashionistas! Ah, it’s been a minute since I graced your screens—life has been sprinting past me, and honestly, my calendar gave up trying to keep up! I tried to post this update before, but it seems My Blog wasn't quite ready for my grand return. Maybe it thought I was too fabulous this time? 😂 Let's stroll down memory lane and chat about the ever-evolving fashion scene here in Dubai, where I landed back in 2017. Upon arrival, it was like stepping into a fashion magazine. Everyone, and I mean everyone, was decked out to the nines. The local ladies? They could give Vogue a run for its money, looking absolutely divine from head to toe. Back in those days, long, stunning dresses and sky-high heels were the unofficial uniform. Walking through the malls, you'd see signs pleading for modest attire, yet those glamorous ensembles were everywhere, making every corridor seem like a runway. Despite the polite reminders still hanging by the entrances today, the dress code has relaxed a bit—sometimes, a bit too much for my taste. Fast forward to today, and there’s a new trend on the block: athleisure, my dears. Yes, whether you're popping into Marina Mall or trotting around Golden Mile, everyone looks like they've just stepped out of a yoga class—permanently. Curiosity got the better of me, and I decided to spend a whole day in sportswear. Verdict? I felt like I was undercover—in my own life! It's comfy, sure, but let’s just say it felt a bit like wearing pajamas to a gala. My daughter cheered, "Mum, you look so cool!" Sweet, isn’t she? But between us, I felt more like a misplaced marathon runner! As much as I adore the comfort, heels are my soulmates, and trainers just don't speak my love language. I miss the days when dressing up was the norm, not the exception. Old Dubai had this magical flair—a city where everyone dressed like they might bump into royalty at the supermarket. Lately, however, it seems like anything goes. Hot pants and skirts have gotten shorter, and some t-shirts are revealing far more than they conceal. I’ve even spotted a brave soul or two strutting around in bikinis that leave little to the imagination, and a young guy wandering Marina Mall in nothing but swim shorts! While Dubai certainly hosts a dazzling array of beautiful people—giving even Brazil's beaches a run for their money—the fashion scene has taken a turn towards the overly casual. It's a beach party out there, and not everyone got the memo that we're still in public. So, let’s make a pact, shall we? Let's bring back the glam, the chic, the fabulous! Who’s ready to ditch the sneakers and slip back into some stilettos with me? Let’s show My Blog just how much sparkle we can bring to our style! Stay fabulous! Yours in stilettos, Henrieta

I'm a dreamer rooted in realism, a free spirit living on my own fabulous terms. There's no soul on Earth who can dictate my course; I set my boundaries alone. My principles are intuitively guided—abstaining from alcohol, steering clear of drugs, and exercising a keen awareness of others' feelings. In my view, it's the basic logic that should resonate with all of us. My moral compass is steadfast unwavering in its direction. While I cherish the lessons and wisdom of the past, wholeheartedly embracing traditional values, I refuse to be confined by institutional norms. I value education immensely, but schools aren't the sole gatekeepers of knowledge. I go against the grain of mainstream narratives because I conduct my own research and rely on my individual ability to think critically. Although I have faith in humanity, unfortunately, my patience has worn thin listening to hollow words from world governments. I've done my homework and can't follow the illogical doctrines fed to us over the years. Family, for me, isn't just important—it's essential. And to those who advocate for solitude as the ultimate life goal, I can only wish them luck. My family is the anchor of my existence, and I'd defend them until my last breath. We all should realise, despite anyone telling you it's OK to be alone, yes, it's OK for a time, but remember, those with intact family relationships are way ahead of the solitary individuals. Family is the core of our existence. Trust is a virtue hard-earned, and it becomes even more complicated when dealing with power structures. I have an unquenchable thirst for freedom and an insistence on respect. Treat me accordingly, and you'll find I reciprocate the sentiment. I refuse to compromise unless it echoes my own deeply held beliefs. And let me emphasise the life you dream of is absolutely achievable—don't rely on anyone else or any system to manifest it for you. I've always aspired to embody the grace of a respected lady, or let's elevate it—a princess, even! And the best part? I'm living that dream. No majestic castle is needed when I've curated my own personal sanctuary. While some might label me eccentric, my ultimate goal is to be completely content with the journey I'm on. Finally, I believe many people harbour dreams they're too intimidated to voice. But here's my chic insight: The moment you dare to articulate those dreams, they take their first steps towards becoming your reality. So why hold back? For the judgment of others? Be audacious; be uniquely you. You'll be astonished at the newfound respect that comes flooding your way. Never give up dreaming. I am very big on that and don't forget to live your dream. I am even bigger at that. I hope I can inspire you a little. Sometimes, it takes courage to be strong and be yourself, but do not be afraid. There is not much to lose, only yourself if you don't do it. Yours in stilettos, Henrieta

My fashion-forward fam! Today, we're stepping out of the wardrobe and into the wallet. Because, let's be honest, what's the point of having impeccable taste if we need to be more savvy with our spending? I recently got my hands on a book that's not only a financial game-changer but also a sartorially conscious read: "The Bitcoin Standard" by Saifedean Ammous. Financial Freedom Meets Fashion Firstly, a little personal history. My family and I aren't just admirers of Bitcoin; we're bona fide pioneers. Since Bitcoin's inception, we've believed in the liberating power of controlling our money. Trust me, the ethos of Bitcoin and the freedom of fashion go hand in hand—both are about expressing individuality and leaving a lasting imprint. A Modern Gold Standard Ammous breaks down Bitcoin's history, its role in the global economy, and its potential to reshape our understanding of money itself. Forget gold bars; the new value store is digital and as chic as your favourite Chanel clutch. The Technical Yet Chic Now, don't let the technical jargon scare you off. Yes, some economics and cryptography are involved, but this book is as accessible as a pre-fall designer collection—easy to understand but sophisticated. Plus, there's nothing more à la mode than a woman who understands blockchain. 😉 Financial Wisdom + Style Savvy = Unstoppable You with Bitcoin Book Beyond just understanding Bitcoin, this book challenges you to rethink the role of money in your life. Imagine a world where you're not just investing in stocks but in cryptocurrencies, all while rocking the latest trends in haute couture. Financial stability and sartorial elegance? Yes, please! Conclusion: The Bitcoin Standard Book This book isn't just a read; it's a revolution—akin to the way Coco Chanel revolutionized women's fashion. It's a must-have in your library, right next to your fashion mags and etiquette books. The takeaway? Be bold savvy, and embrace the endless possibilities of financial literacy. Don't just stop looking fabulous; be fabulous in every aspect of your life, including your finances. Until then, stay fierce and financially savvy! There you have it, my lovelies! I hope you're as excited about this eye-opening book as I am. Until next time, keep slaying in your stilettos and in your stock portfolio. Yours in stilettos ( not this time ;-)), Henrieta Buy this Book over Amazon

Let's Talk today Home decor my friends. In the dynamic world of fashion and lifestyle, change is constant, and adaptability is key. However, there are realms where timelessness is not just a luxury but a necessity—home furnishings. As someone who thrives on embracing new trends while honoring classic elegance, I find the quest for the perfect home pieces to be an extension of my personal style. My Home Decor Philosophy : Furniture Decor As a connoisseur of fashion and a resident of the vibrant city of Dubai, my home decor is a constantly evolving tapestry. I have an insatiable appetite for change, often seeking new accents or furniture to update my living spaces. However, the trick lies in finding pieces that not only stand out today but will also hold their allure for years to come. Some of the items that grace my home have been with me for two decades. These are pieces I would never part with; not only because they were significant investments but because their timeless appeal makes them ever-relevant. They harmonize beautifully with seasonal items, creating an eclectic yet cohesive look. The Quest for Affordable Elegance When We Talking About Home In my pursuit of furnishings that embody this philosophy, I happened upon Vanity Living—a premier furniture company based right here in Dubai. While browsing their well-curated online catalogue, I found myself enamored by the diversity of their offerings. The Vanity Living the UAE Furniture Online Store Experience The brand offers an array of furniture that speaks to various tastes and needs, be it sleek, contemporary coffee tables or plush sofas that beckon you to sink into their comfort. What's particularly striking is how Vanity Living's collection merges modern aesthetics with enduring quality, making each piece versatile enough to adapt to changing decor styles over the years. Having personally integrated several pieces from Vanity Living into my home, I can say without a doubt that each item is a statement piece—a work of craftsmanship that elevates any room it graces. But the beauty of these pieces doesn’t just lie in their design or longevity; it's also in their affordability. In a marketplace often split between cheap, disposable items and prohibitively expensive luxury goods, Vanity Living hits that sweet spot of offering high-quality furniture at accessible price points. Vanity Living Online Store Added Bonuses: Free Delivery and Assembly An extraordinary feature that I must highlight is Vanity Living's customer service, particularly their delivery and assembly policies. In a landscape where hidden charges can significantly inflate your final bill, Vanity Living offers free delivery and assembly services. In my case, the furniture arrived on time and was assembled on-site by their efficient team, all without any additional costs. This not only adds an element of convenience but also reinforces the brand’s commitment to customer satisfaction. Vanity Living Online or In-Store: You Choose Whether you’re a traditional shopper who enjoys the tactile experience of walking through a showroom or someone who prefers the ease of online browsing, Vanity Living accommodates both preferences with aplomb. Their excellent customer service extends across both platforms, ensuring a seamless shopping experience from start to finish. But why to go to store if you can order everything online. Final Thoughts : High Quality Furniture In Dubai In summary, Vanity Living stands out as a brand that understands its customers' quest for furniture that is not just aesthetically pleasing and durable, but also considerate of their time and wallet. For residents of Dubai and throughout the UAE, this is a compelling choice. In a world where home is increasingly becoming a sanctuary, it's a privilege to find a brand that offers you the tools to make your haven as stylish as it is comfortable. If you’re looking to strike that perfect balance between modern flair and timeless grace, Vanity Living comes highly recommended. Your Sanctuary , Your Dream Home Awaits Vanity Living In our fast-paced lives, home serves as our ultimate sanctuary—a place where we not only seek comfort but also express our individuality. It's a canvas that deserves the same thoughtful attention to detail that we give to our personal style. So, why not elevate your space to its fullest potential? Give it the glow-up it truly deserves with Vanity Living. Whether you’re embarking on a complete home makeover or simply looking to update a room, there’s no better time than now to explore what Vanity Living has to offer. 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From Chic Choices to Conscious Living, The Scent of Heaven or Hazard? Unveiling the Do's and Don'ts of Home Fragrances. How are you all doing in this fabulous world of chic interiors and show-stopping outfits? Today, we're stepping aside from the runway and focusing on something that's more close-to-home than my collection of limited edition stilettos. Imagine, a dimension where your senses are not just captivated but entirely swept off their feet. Welcome to the alluring, yet sometimes complex, universe of home fragrances. Now, hold onto your essential oils, soy candles, and even that adorable reed diffuser sitting on your coffee table. Because today, we're not just spraying perfume on the roses. We're getting into the nitty-gritty of it all—what's heavenly for your nostrils and soothing for your soul, but also what might be lurking in the background as a silent home-wrecker. A 'scent-sational' intrigue, don't you think? But that's not all, loves. We're not just talking aromas; we're dissecting them. We're learning how to make our homes not just Instagram-worthy, but olfactory-approved. It's a sensual journey that’s about to unfold, from the luxurious aroma of Egyptian cotton-scented rooms to the dark alleys where not-so-chic ingredients hide in your go-to scents. Intrigued? You should be, because by the end of this, you’ll be a bona fide scent connoisseur! The Good Vibes of Home Fragrances Home Fragrances Are More Than Just A Pretty Smell Let's kick things off on a fabulous high note, shall we? We often underestimate the transformative power of scent; it's not just an afterthought or an optional accessory in our homes. Oh, no, no, no—scent is a game-changer! A captivating aroma serves as the ultimate pièce de résistance in an already stylish home. It elevates your stunning decor and serves as an olfactory expression of your extraordinary personality. The Science of Scent: Not Just for Glam, But for Your Mental Glamour too But it’s not all frills and fashionista flair, my lovelies. The impact of scent on our well-being is backed by science. According to a study published in the Journal of Environmental Psychology, natural aromas like lavender can reduce stress levels, while invigorating fragrances such as citrus can boost your mood and mental focus. Who knew that your choice of home fragrance could be as instrumental in setting your daily tone as your morning coffee or your go-to power lipstick? A Multi-Sensory Experience: It's Like an Outfit for Your Home When you think about it, scent is like the cherry on top of your home decor—equally significant as that statement vase in your living room or the eye-catching artwork in your dining area. Scent adds depth to the visual feast, making your living space a multi-sensory experience. And we all know how crucial the right accessories are to perfecting any ensemble, don’t we? The same principle applies to your home; it needs a signature scent that's as fabulous as you are. Mindfulness Meets Aesthetics Here's another gem for you. Scents have a way of anchoring us in the present moment. A touch of sandalwood or the delicate aroma of vanilla can be an invitation to pause, breathe, and appreciate the beauty that surrounds you. It's like a form of mindfulness that you can practice effortlessly, just by stepping into your home. A Scented Tour of Dubai: When Architecture Meets Aroma Did you know? Dubai takes the power of scent to an entirely new level! I mean, it’s not just about adorning your home with an entrancing aroma; we're talking about a city that understands the essence of fragrant sophistication. Many of Dubai's iconic buildings, like the monumental Burj Khalifa, are believed to have their own bespoke scents. Rumor has it, the signature fragrance wafting through the Burj Khalifa was specially selected by none other than His Highness Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum himself. Can you even imagine the opulence? And it's not just about the world’s tallest skyscraper. A myriad of luxury hotels across this glamorous city employ their unique signature fragrances to dazzle your senses the moment you step into their lobbies. I still can’t get the scent of the Atlantis, The Royal which is a luxurious addition to the iconic Atlantis, The Palm, out of my nose, simply Magnificent. Just the name alone exudes an air of majesty, doesn't it? So, it's not just a matter of decor and aesthetic—these scent choices are integral to the very identity of these architectural marvels. Mood Lifters & Memory Makers: The Unseen Magic of Scent Marketing Trust Dubai to elevate the art of fragrance from personal luxury to an urban experience! And if Dubai is doing it, you know it's a trend worth paying attention to. You've got you stylish stamp of approval to indulge in scent glory as well. But let's dish out some extra tea, shall we? Scent is not merely about uplifting your mood; it's an unseen but omnipotent force in the realm of marketing. Picture this: my first visit to the exotic island of Ko Samui. The moment I walked into the a Renaissance Koh Samui Resort & Spa, I was engulfed by the mesmerizing aroma of jasmine. The scent was so intoxicatingly clean and refreshing, it felt like a sprinkle of magic in the air. I was so bewitched by this olfactory experience that I didn't even notice the small imperfections here and there in the hotel. That's right, loves—the scent created an aura so enchanting, it covered up minor flaws and gave the entire space a glow of positivity. Now, if that isn’t a masterstroke in marketing, what is? The Science Behind the Magic But why does this happen? Scientifically speaking, our sense of smell is directly linked to the limbic system—the emotional control center of the brain. One whiff of a particular scent can transport you to a different time and place. Remembering your grandma's cinnamon rolls during the holidays, anyone? It’s because fragrances can evoke powerful emotional responses, including happiness, calmness, and even a sense of nostalgia. Personalizing Your Scent-scape When it comes to your own home, don't underestimate the impact of carefully chosen scents. Opt for floral aromas like lavender for a calming ambiance, or invigorate your surroundings with citrusy tones. Create a 'scent-scape' that not only enhances your mood but also forms unforgettable memories for anyone who steps into your space. After all, the ultimate goal is to make your home as unforgettable as you are! Guest Impressions: The Scented Symphony of Perfect Hosting Now, darling, if you're like me, you know that first impressions are not just important—they're everything. Especially when you're hosting, you know you've got only one shot to captivate your guests and leave them in awe. Enter the game-changing, invisible cloak of hospitality—yes, the enchanting power of home fragrances! The Science Behind the Grand Entrance Did you know that according to psychological studies, people make judgments within the first seven seconds of meeting someone—or entering a space? Your home is no exception! A study published in the International Journal of Hospitality Management revealed that guests who were greeted with a pleasing scent upon entering a hotel rated their overall stay higher than those who weren't. Imagine translating this impact into your own living room! The Etiquette of Aromas: Creating a Welcoming Oasis Ah, and let's not forget the etiquette, the real cream on top of our hospitality cake! When a guest steps into your home and is greeted by a delicious fragrance—be it the sweet notes of vanilla or the earthy undertones of sandalwood—it immediately sends a message of care and attention to detail. You're not just offering them a seat; you're offering them an entire sensory experience. Captivating & Cherishing: The True Essence of Hosting By creating an olfactory atmosphere that's both captivating and comforting, you're doing more than just keeping up with good manners. You're offering a slice of your world, a signature scent that will forever be associated with the warmth and love of your home. Your guests won’t just feel welcomed; they’ll feel cherished, seen, and most importantly—eager to come back. The Dark Side of Home Fragrances: When Scent Becomes a Silent Saboteur Switching gears for a moment, loves, because we need to address the unspoken. Now, I would never want to be the bringer of bad news, but ignoring the dark side of fragrances would be like ignoring a stain on a couture gown—a big no-no! Toxic Cocktails: The Poison You Can't See or Smell Brace yourselves. Some of the synthetic fragrances and air fresheners that promise a heavenly abode are, in reality, a toxic mix. I'm talking about a devilish concoction of chemicals that can include harmful substances like formaldehyde and benzene. Inhaling these can be as harmful as sipping a poisonous cocktail! The Science of Scent Safety: What Research Tells Us According to a study published in the journal Environmental Health Perspectives, certain synthetic fragrances can emit volatile organic compounds (VOCs) that contribute to indoor air pollution. These VOCs are linked to a range of health issues, including respiratory problems and even potential hormone disruption. No darling, your home should be a sanctuary, not a hazardous waste zone! Repercussions Over Time: More than Just a Bad Smell The insidious part? You won't even realize the damage being done until it's too late. Over time, these chemicals don't just affect your home's air quality—they can seep into your very lifestyle, affecting your health and well-being. If you're spritzing these around like perfume, you might as well be spraying chaos into your life! Natural Alternatives: The Chic Solution For The Best Home Fragrance But don't despair, fashionistas! I am not leaving you in the dark without a stylish flashlight. Opt for natural alternatives like essential oils or beeswax candles to keep your home smelling divine without compromising on health. Look for products that list their ingredients openly, so you know you're bringing only the good vibes into your space. Sensitive Sniffers & The Bottom Line: Making Scentsible Choices with Flair Attention, Allergy & Asthma Warriors: Scent Sensitivity is Real Oh, we simply cannot forget our beauties who have allergies or asthma! While a luscious aroma might uplift some, it could be an invitation to a sneeze-fest for others. Imagine entertaining guests only to have them gasping for air between sneezes. Yikes, not a glamorous picture! Beyond the Obvious: Home Scents And The Underlying Issues Science is on our side here. According to a study published in the Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology, exposure to certain fragrances can exacerbate symptoms in individuals with asthma or respiratory issues. For some, it's not just an uncomfortable situation but a serious health concern. The Bottom Line: Make Scentsible Choices Of Your Home Fragrances Now, whether you're enchanted by the perfume of peonies or repulsed by the aroma of roses, remember: the fragrance you choose is a silent but mighty powerhouse in your home. So here’s how to make choices that are not just fabulous but also informed: Go Natural: The Chic and Safe Route Opt for essential oils, soy or beeswax candles, or naturally scented potpourris. The earth gives us so many divine scents to enjoy; why go synthetic when you can stay authentic? Read Labels: The Fashionista’s Guide to Ingredient Lists It's a simple adage but worth repeating—not all that glitters is gold. Especially if the package whispers "fragrance," delve into the details and check those ingredients! Test it Out: The Home Fragrance Trial Run for Your Senses When in doubt, don't go all out. Try a small amount first to see how it plays with your senses and those of your family. You wouldn’t buy a designer dress without trying it on first, would you? The Fragrant Finale: Top 10 Luxury-to-Luxe Home Fragrances 1. Clive Christian – "No. 1" Room Spray Smell: An opulent blend of ylang-ylang, chamomile, and sandalwood Note: Often referred to as the world's most expensive home fragrance, this one is for those who spare no expense in adorning their homes with olfactory elegance. 2. Jo Malone London – "Pomegranate Noir" Diffuser Smell: Pomegranate with hints of smoky wood and spicy pink pepper Note: The epitome of British luxury; this fragrance is as classy as they come. 3. Le Labo – "Santal 33" Scented Candle Smell: Leather, iris, and sandalwood Note: A New York City cult-favorite that brings a modern edge to traditional luxury. 4. Diptyque – "Baies" Room Spray Smell: Fresh roses and blackcurrant leaves Note: A Parisian classic that’s both sweet and slightly tart. 5. Tom Ford – "Oud Wood" Candle Smell: Rare oud wood, Chinese pepper, and vanilla Note: Sultry and inviting, this one's an olfactory journey you won't forget. 6. Rituals – "Black Oudh" Private Collection Fragrance Sticks Smell: A complex aroma of black oudh, mingled with spices and patchouli Note: Absolutely divine! This fragrance captures the essence of ritualistic luxury. 7. Byredo – "Safran" Scented Candle Smell: saffron and black pepper before closing with patchouli, warm vanilla and dark amber base. Note: It will fill your home with a fresh welcoming scent, this fragrance is as mysterious as it is luxurious. 8. Acqua di Parma – "Blu Mediterraneo Arancia di Capri" Candle Smell: Fresh notes of orange, mandarin, and lemon Note: A citrusy affair that’s like an Italian summer in a jar. 9. Voluspa – "Baltic Amber" Jar Candle Smell: Amber resin, sandalwood, and vanilla orchid Note: A reasonably priced luxury, its warm aroma is both cozy and lavish. 10. P.F. Candle Co. – "Teakwood & Tobacco" Soy Candle Smell: Leather, teak, and orange Note: Eco-friendly and affordable, this candle is perfect for the conscious consumer who still enjoys a touch of luxury. There you have it, my loves—a carefully curated list to match any budget, without skimping on opulence or quality. So, which one will grace your home next? End of Our Ultimate Guide to Transforming Your Home with Luxury Fragrances: From Chic Choices to Conscious Living We've arrived at the crescendo of this scentsational journey! As we wrap up, let's remember: the essence of your home is a reflection of you—your style, your passions, and your values. So why not choose a fragrance that adds the final exclamation point to the fabulous life story you're creating every single day? From the crème de la crème to fabulous finds that won’t break the bank, you now have an assortment of choices that are as complex, delightful, and wonderful as you are. So go ahead, find your fragrance soulmate, and envelop your home in a cloud of scented heaven! Thanks for joining me on this aromatic adventure. Remember, whether you're shopping for the ultimate in luxury or a simple everyday spritz, make it a choice that fills your home—and your heart—with joy. Until next time, stay fabulous and fragrant. Yours in stilettos, Henrieta 💋 #HomeFragrances #LuxuryScents #EssentialOils #ScentedCandles #RoomSpray #Diffusers #NaturalFragrances #ChemicalFreeLiving #AllergiesAndAsthma #MoodLiftingScents #HomeDecor #GuestReady #DubaiLuxury #Aromatherapy #FragranceSafety #ScentChoices #FragranceBrands #ScentMarketing #FabulousHomes #ConsciousLiving #dubailookbook #dubailifestyle #dubaifragrances #dubaihotels #dubaitravel